How does one succeed in life?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How do you like to be pegged?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Can bosses get fired for being too hard on employees?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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What I need from you?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why are so many US conservatives in this day and age still against racial mixing? They won't say it in public, but they are still against the mixing between Blacks and whites? Why?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What are some life hacks for living on your own?

That's it for today.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

There was this one weird Bollywood movie that was released in the 2000s. Amitabh Bachchan was starring with another actress and the story was about how the old guy (Amitabh Bachchan) fell in love with the young woman. What is the name of this movie?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What are you struggling with in your life? What would you like to have instead?

Making more friends is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Procrastinates a lot.

What was your most memorable experience catching a fraudulent car seller?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Republican Trump is a billionaire, president, won't be held accountable for multiple felonies, and pretty much has whatever he wants. So why is he always whining and crying about stupid, pointless stuff? Is he incapable of happiness?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Ask yourself:

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What is your review of House of the Dragon Season 2 finale, Episode 8?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

How would you feel if your friend confided in you that she is cheating on her husband, knowing that he loves her deeply? What emotional and ethical considerations would you grapple with in response to her revelation?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Does not procrastinate.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.